The "Other" Man/Woman

Ready to judge me? It's fine. I risk that by blogging in the first place.

I have been "The Other Woman" at least three times... that I know of, anyway. Funny thing about that: they don't always tell you there's someone else.

Yes, men boys have cheated on their significant others with me. Am I proud of it? Of course not. I felt terrible, but there wasn't much I could do about it. Mostly because I wasn't aware at the start. Does that make it ok? Of course not, especially if I didn't stop once I found out. But where does responsibility really lie when you are the "Other?"